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It
is upon every responsible Muslim to keep the following obligations in
mind at all times, day and night:
The
knowledge of Allahand attesting to His Oneness.
Clothing
oneself with the lawful (halal).
Ablution
(wudu). ( By performing it properly, and striving to be in a
state of ritual purity at all times.
Performing
the five obligatory prayers, and for men to be diligent in doing so
in congregation this is either a confirmed sunna or necessary. (F:It
is best and most rewarding for women to do so at home.)
Believing
that Allah (Most High) will provide for one and putting one's heart
at rest concerning this.
Eating
and drinking from a lawful means.
Being
content with what Allah grants of lawful means of livelihood.
Trusting
in one's Lord (Exalted is He)
Being
content with what one's Lord destines.
Thanking
Allah for His blessings.
Being
patient in trials and tribulations.
Repenting
from all sins.
Being
sincere in one's worship, by leaving pride (riyaa) and
ostentation (`ujb).
Taking
Satan as one's enemy.
Making
the Quran one's proof, and acting upon its teachings.
Being
prepared for death.
Commanding
the good and forbidding the evil.
Leaving
backbiting, which is to mention someone with that which they
dislike, even if it is true (F: for if it is untrue, it is slander,
which is greater in sin).
Being
good to one's parents.
Being
good to one's relatives to the extent possible, even if only by a
visit.
Keeping
one's promises.
Leaving
any jest, especially mocking others, that contravenes the Sacred
Law.
Always
obeying Allah (Most High) and His Messenger (Allah bless him and
give him peace).
Being
far from sin, and busy with acts of obedience.
Fearing
Allah (Exalted is He) and never feeling safe from Allah's devising.
Reflecting
upon the creation of the Unique Creator to deduce from it His
Oneness and Power.
Guarding
one's tongue from detestable speech.
Not
looking at women (F: who are not from one's immediate family, or for
a woman to look at men with desire).
Giving
full due (in one's financial dealings with others).
Giving
to the needy, (especially) those who are without food.
Not
despairing of the mercy of Allah (Most High).
Not
following one's caprice.
Thanking
Allah (Exalted is He) for all that happens, and considering it all a
blessing.
Paying
zakat.
Cleansing
one's heart from all sin. (Thus, one leaves the sin, seeks
forgiveness for all one has done, and resolves never to return to
it.)
Never
even coming near fornication (zina) or homosexual acts.
Not
wrongfully consuming another's wealth.
Never
associating partners with Allah, (whether explicitly or implicitly,
which is by showing off)
Never
pronouncing a false oath.
Never to give
charity and then make hurtful reminders by talking about it.
[1]
Note that silk is permitted for women, not men. Men cannot adorn
themselves with gold or silver, except for a silver ring and sword
adornment, if the intention is not adornment. Both men and women
cannot use gold and silver utensils.
[2]
Trusting in one's Lord means that one does not hope except from Him,
and fears none but Him. Trust is one of the five things through which
the Path of the Sufis is sought, as mentioned by Ibn `Arabi. These
five things are: trust in Allah, certainty, patience, determination,
and being true. So it is upon the intelligent to consign all their
affairs to Allah, and not to rely on others, for Allah Most High has
said, 'And whosoever puts their trust in Allah, He will suffice him.'
(Qurân, 65:3)
[3] For
only that which He has determined and destined happens. In the Forty
Hadiths of Nawawi, it is reported on
the authority of Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) that he
said, “I was behind the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him
peace) one day when he said to me, “O youth, I shall teach you
some words. Be mindful of Allah, and Allah will be mindful of you. Be
mindful of Allah and you will find him in front of you. If you ask,
ask of Allah. If you seek help, seek help of Allah. Know that if the
Community were to gather to benefit you with anything, they would
only benefit you with something Allah had written for you, and if
they gather to harm you, they would only harm you with something
Allah had already written for you. The pens have been lifted and the
pages have dried. (Related by Tirmidhi, who said it is a good and
rigorously authentic narration)
[4]
The conditions for a valid repentance are four: acknowledging one's
sin, being remorseful about it, (F: leaving it immediately and) being
determined not to return to it, and to mend any grievances .
[5]
And whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord, let him do righteous
work, and make none sharer of the worship due unto his Lord. (Qurân,
19: 111)
[6] The good is
that which corresponds to the Sacred Law, and the bad is that which
contravenes it.
It is only
necessary to command good and forbid evil if one believes that the
person will listen. If one thinks that the person will not listen, it
is not necessary; however, it is better to advise that person, even
if it entails harm to one. (F: However, if this will mean that the
person becomes worse or more entrenched in their wrongdoing, then it
is better to remain silent.)
Know,
too, that enjoining the good and forbidding the evil needs to be done
in a gentle and mild way. It is best to do so by relating the matter
back to the Lawgiver.
[7]
Backbiting can be explicit with the tongue, or by actions such as
mimicking.
It is best to seek
that persons forgiveness, though it is enough to feel remorse and
seek Allah's forgiveness for having talked about him behind his
back.
[8] Your Lord has
decreed that you worship none save Him, and (that you show) kindness
to parents. (Qurân, <ST1>18: 23</ST1>)
[9]
Regarding being good to one's relatives, we should remember that the
point is not to be good to them only if they are good to you, but
rather to be good to them even if they are bad to you.
[10]
F: This includes trying to make others laugh through lying.
[11]
For in each atom of these created things is sufficient proof that
Allah Most High is its Creator, without partners or aides.
From
the book 'Ilm al-Hal
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